Anxiety can sneak up on you or hit you like a wave. One moment you’re fine, and the next, your heart races, your stomach churns, and your thoughts spin out of control. You try to tell yourself to calm down, but it doesn’t work. You wonder, Why does this feel so overwhelming?
If you’ve ever asked yourself that question, you’re not alone. Anxiety affects millions of people every day, yet many don’t fully understand what’s happening in their brain and body. That lack of understanding makes it harder to break free from the cycle.
At Inner Summits, we specialize in helping people understand and manage anxiety using evidence-based, compassionate approaches. In this blog, we’ll explore why anxiety feels so overpowering, how it impacts your body and mind, and what you can do, today, to begin feeling better.
What Is Anxiety, Really?
Anxiety is more than just stress or worry. It’s a physiological and psychological response to perceived threats, whether those threats are real, imagined, or remembered. It’s rooted in the brain’s fear system and affects your thoughts, emotions, and body simultaneously.
Common Symptoms of Anxiety Include:
- Racing heart or chest tightness
- Shallow or rapid breathing
- Muscle tension or headaches
- Digestive issues (nausea, stomach pain)
- Insomnia or restlessness
- Overthinking, catastrophizing, or looping thoughts
- Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
Understanding the science behind anxiety is the first step toward reclaiming control, and your peace of mind.
Why Anxiety Feels So Overwhelming
1. Your Brain Is on High Alert
The brain’s amygdala plays a key role in detecting threats. When it perceives danger, even something like a stressful email or social situation, it sets off an alarm, activating the “fight, flight, or freeze” response.
Unfortunately, in today’s world, the amygdala often reacts to non-life-threatening stressors with the same intensity it would for a physical threat. That’s why something minor can trigger such a major reaction.
2. The Fight-or-Flight System Takes Over
Once your amygdala signals a threat, your body responds by releasing stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol. These chemicals:
- Increase your heart rate
- Raise your blood pressure
- Shut down digestion
- Sharpen your senses
- Prime your muscles to act fast
This all happens in seconds, before your logical brain (prefrontal cortex) even has a chance to assess the situation.
When this system is triggered too often, your body gets stuck in a state of hyperarousal, and that’s when anxiety starts to feel unmanageable.
3. Anxious Thoughts Amplify Physical Reactions
Anxiety isn’t just physical. Your thoughts can feed the fire. A common loop goes like this:
- You feel a symptom (tight chest, nausea)
- You start thinking, What if I’m having a heart attack? What if I lose control?
- The fear grows, triggering more physical symptoms
- You panic, reinforcing the belief that something’s seriously wrong
This cycle, called a feedback loop, is a major reason anxiety feels like it’s spiraling. The more you fear the symptoms, the worse they get.
4. Your Nervous System Can Get “Stuck”
For people with chronic anxiety or unresolved trauma, the nervous system can stay stuck in survival mode. This means your baseline level of stress is already elevated, so it doesn’t take much to push you over the edge.
If you’ve ever felt like your anxiety comes out of nowhere, this may be why. Your nervous system is constantly scanning for danger and reacting even when there is none.
5. Memory and Past Trauma Play a Role
The hippocampus stores emotional memories. If you’ve experienced trauma, your brain might misinterpret safe situations as dangerous because they feel familiar.
For example, a tone of voice, a smell, or a specific place might trigger anxiety without any obvious cause. This is how post-traumatic stress and complex trauma contribute to overwhelming anxiety responses.
The Hidden Triggers That Make Anxiety Worse
While the root of anxiety lies in your brain and body, certain lifestyle and environmental factors can make it worse. Understanding these hidden triggers can help you reduce their impact.
1. Caffeine and Stimulants
Caffeine mimics anxiety symptoms by increasing heart rate and stimulating the nervous system. People with anxiety are often more sensitive to it.
2. Poor Sleep
Lack of restorative sleep weakens your emotional resilience and impairs your brain’s ability to regulate fear responses.
3. Overuse of Technology
Constant notifications, news overload, and social media comparison can overstimulate your brain and prevent downtime.
4. Nutritional Deficiencies
Low magnesium, B vitamins, and omega-3 fatty acids are linked to increased anxiety symptoms. A poor diet can also disrupt gut health, which is directly connected to mood.
5. Unprocessed Emotions
Avoiding grief, anger, or sadness can lead to anxiety. When we suppress emotions, the energy doesn’t disappear, it often turns into restlessness, irritability, or dread.
How to Manage Anxiety Naturally and Effectively
There’s no one-size-fits-all solution, but the following tools are proven to reduce anxiety’s intensity and frequency:
1. Deep Breathing and Grounding Exercises
- Try box breathing (inhale 4s, hold 4s, exhale 4s, hold 4s)
- Use your five senses to bring awareness to the present moment
- Anchor yourself by touching something textured, like a rock or fabric
2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT helps you identify anxious thought patterns and replace them with more balanced, realistic ones. It also teaches coping skills for high-stress situations.
At Inner Summits, our therapists use CBT alongside other personalized modalities to address both the thoughts and the physical sensations behind anxiety.
3. Somatic and Trauma-Informed Approaches
- EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
- Somatic Experiencing
- Yoga and breath-led movement
These methods help release anxiety stored in the body and restore a sense of calm.
4. Nutrition and Gut Health
- Eat whole, unprocessed foods
- Include probiotics and fiber
- Limit sugar, alcohol, and processed oils
These changes support gut-brain balance, which plays a crucial role in anxiety management.
5. Lifestyle Boundaries and Rest
- Set digital limits (turn off notifications, use Do Not Disturb mode)
- Protect your sleep, 7-9 hours of quality rest is vital
- Take short breaks throughout your day to reset your nervous system
When to Seek Help
Anxiety is common, but that doesn’t mean you have to tolerate it.
If your anxiety:
- Interferes with work, school, or relationships
- Causes frequent panic attacks
- Makes it hard to sleep, eat, or focus
- Feels out of proportion to the situation
- Has persisted for more than 6 months
… then it’s time to get support.
At Inner Summits, we understand how overwhelming anxiety can feel. We also know it can be managed. Our team uses a holistic, compassionate approach tailored to your unique needs. Whether you’re dealing with panic attacks, generalized anxiety, or trauma-related stress, we can help you find relief and confidence again.
Let’s Summit This Together
Anxiety can feel like a mountain. But you don’t have to climb it alone.
Inner Summits is here to help you understand your anxiety, break free from fear, and reconnect with calm.
Reach out today to schedule a consultation. Let’s talk about what’s possible when anxiety no longer runs the show.
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