Healing the Past So It Stops Controlling the Present
You’ve worked hard to move on—but something keeps pulling you back.
Maybe it’s a memory that won’t let go. Or a flood of anxiety that seems to come out of nowhere. Maybe you’ve told the story in therapy before, but the charge is still there—tight in your chest, racing in your thoughts, hijacking your calm.
That’s where EMDR therapy begins.
You don’t have to talk your way out of trauma. You can reprocess it—safely and effectively.
“EMDR gave me the space to face what happened—without feeling overwhelmed by it. For the first time, I felt like the past was truly behind me.”
What Is EMDR Therapy?
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a neuroscience-based, trauma therapy that helps people recover from distressing memories and overwhelming emotional experiences.
Originally developed to treat PTSD, EMDR is now widely used to address anxiety, grief, panic, relational trauma, and more.
Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR works by helping the brain reprocess stuck memories, using a structured 8-phase protocol and bilateral stimulation (often through eye movements or tactile cues).
The goal isn’t to forget what happened. It’s to help your brain realize—it’s over.
Why This Matters: Trauma Isn’t Just in the Past
Even if you know something is “over,” your nervous system might still react like you’re in danger.
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- Sudden panic with no clear trigger
- Avoidance of places, people, or emotions
- Shame or self-blame that won’t let up
- Emotional numbness or hypervigilance
These aren’t personality flaws. They’re the result of a trauma memory that hasn’t finished processing.
EMDR helps your brain do what it was designed to do: complete the memory, integrate the emotion, and move forward.
This approach is especially effective for:
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- Post-traumatic stress (PTSD) and complex trauma
- Childhood or developmental trauma
- Panic attacks or anxiety that seems “out of nowhere”
- Phobias or performance anxiety
- Shame, guilt, or self-blame that won’t let go
- Emotional numbness, dissociation, or shutdown
- Grief and unresolved loss
- Feeling “stuck” despite years of therapy
It’s not about re-living the trauma. It’s about releasing its grip.
The past may shape us—but it doesn’t have to define us. EMDR helps you write a new ending.
How EMDR Therapy Works
EMDR is structured and efficient—but deeply attuned to your pace and your story. It begins with safety, not story.
In sessions, your therapist will guide you through:
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- Resource building: Tools for grounding, regulation, and safety
- Target identification: Pinpointing the memory, image, or belief at the root
- Bilateral stimulation: Using eye movements, tapping, or audio tones
- Reprocessing: Allowing the brain to resolve and reframe the memory
You stay aware and in control the whole time. The memory may arise—but with support, it no longer floods you.
EMDR doesn’t erase what happened. It takes the charge out of it—so it stops hijacking your present.
What Makes EMDR Therapy Different?
While many therapies help you manage symptoms, EMDR helps you process the root of the symptoms—changing how you feel, think, and respond from the inside out.
EMDR is for people who’ve done the talking—and are ready to experience real change.
You don’t have to go into rehash the whole story. You don’t even have to know the whole story. You just have to be willing to begin.
Who Is EMDR For?
EMDR is ideal for you if:
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- You’ve experienced trauma, even if it “wasn’t that bad”
- You have memories, fears, or feelings that won’t resolve
- You feel emotionally hijacked or out of proportion to the moment
- You’ve plateaued in talk therapy or feel stuck in patterns
- You’re ready to move beyond coping—toward actual relief
Whether your trauma is recent, developmental, or long-buried, EMDR offers a proven path toward freedom.
The Outcome: Freedom That Sticks
After EMDR, many clients describe:
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- Fewer emotional flashbacks or spikes
- A calm body even when thinking about the past
- More clarity and self-compassion
- The ability to respond—instead of react
- A sense that “it’s over” in body, not just mind
This is trauma therapy that doesn’t just manage pain. It transforms it.
You don’t have to carry this alone anymore. EMDR can help your brain and body find resolution—on their own terms.
Meet Our EMDR Therapists
At Inner Summits, we have a team of certified EMDR practitioners who are warm, skilled, and deeply trauma-informed.
We combine EMDR with other modalities like parts work, somatic psychotherapy, and attachment-based therapy to support every part of your healing.
Below are just a few of our friendly faces, and you can learn more about us on Our Team page.
You don’t have to do this alone.
Our Locations: Toronto, Vaughan & Richmond Hill
We offer Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing therapy at both our Toronto, Vaughan and Richmond Hill locations, with flexible scheduling for in-person or virtual sessions. Whether you’re healing from trauma, anxiety, or distressing life experiences, we’re here to support you.
No matter where you’re starting, we’ll meet you there—and walk with you from that first session onward.
FAQs
What is EMDR therapy and how does it work?
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing helps people heal from trauma by reprocessing painful memories through guided eye movements or other bilateral stimulation. This allows the brain to heal from past trauma in the same way it processes current events.
Do I have to talk about my trauma in detail?
No. EMDR does not require full retelling. The process works with your brain’s natural ability to heal—your therapist supports this without forcing detail.
What if I don’t remember what happened?
It is very common for people with trauma and complex PTSD not to have conscious, explicit memories. Skilled EMDR therapists—especially ones who also incorporate somatic therapy, like ours—know how to work with implicit memory.
Can EMDR make things worse?
EMDR is designed to be titrated and paced carefully. A skilled therapist will ensure you are grounded and resourced before doing deeper work.
Is EMDR safe for complex trauma or dissociation?
Yes, with proper assessment and preparation. We use modified EMDR protocols for complex trauma, and always adapt based on your needs.
Ready to Heal with EMDR Therapy?
You don’t have to explain it all.
You don’t need the perfect words.
You just need a willingness to begin.
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